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How to Properly Introduce Puppies On-Leash: A Guide to Holding Your Ground by Master Puppy trainer - Peter Bonney

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Updated: Jan 14

Introducing your puppy to new friends can be an exciting yet challenging experience, especially when it comes to on-leash interactions so knowing 'How to Properly Introduce Puppies On-Leash' is a very important beginning to your puppies fife long training. As one of Australia’s number one puppy trainers, we understand the significance of these early encounters and the lasting impact they can have on your puppy’s behavior and confidence. In this guide, we’ll explain why it’s crucial to “hold your ground” when your puppy pulls and how to ensure a positive, controlled meeting between on-leash puppies.


The Importance of "Holding Your Ground". When we advise clients to “hold their ground,” we mean that they should stand firm and not allow their puppy to pull them towards another puppy. Young puppies are naturally curious and often have little experience being on a leash. (This can and will occur with older dogs too). They don’t yet understand leash etiquette and will instinctively pull towards anything that catches their interest, including other puppies. However, allowing your puppy to pull and invade another puppy’s space can lead to unwanted behaviors and stress for both puppies.



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Why do Controlled puppy Introductions Matter?

A controlled introduction helps puppies learn to read and respond to each other’s body language appropriately. (They are relying on YOU you to teach them everything which includes How to Properly Introduce Puppies On-Leash)


"This is a life lesson that can not be undervalued or misunderstood. When puppies meet face-to-face under your guidance, they have the opportunity to observe and interpret each other’s signals, teaches them to communicate and interact in a socially acceptable manner and it prevents overwhelming or intimidating a less confident or smaller puppy, fostering a positive and safe environment for all.


All breeds of dogs benefit by on-leash introductions. Some breeds which are by their very nature, anxious or unsure, benefit greatly from this positive first on-leash interactions. A good or bad introduction may have a long lasting affect on your puppies state of being and state of mind. There can be and are, many different triggers for anxiety in our dogs. Things like the breeds disposition, parental lines, and external tiggers. There are experts in this field who specialise in canine anxiety so perhaps find out more about your particular dogs tendencies for being anxious. It absolutely matters.


Tailoring Introductions Based on Breed Tendencies

Some breeds may require extra attention and care during initial introductions due to their temperament and historical roles. While most puppies can thrive with consistent, positive reinforcement, understanding your breed’s tendencies can help you tailor the introduction process for optimal results.For example -


  • Herding breeds such as Border Collies and Australian Shepherds are often highly alert and may require more guidance to prevent over-excitement during interactions.

  • Companion breeds like King Charles Cavaliers or Bichon Frises tend to be naturally friendly but may need reassurance in unfamiliar environments.

  • Working breeds like German Shepherds or Rottweilers may display protective instincts, so it’s crucial to teach calm behaviour during introductions.


Breeds to be conscious of their potential towards becoming Anxious includes the following (Not in any particular order and NOT a comprehensive list):

  • Lagotto Romagnolos

  • Wheaten Terriers

  • Shetland Sheepdogs

  • Mini Schnauzers

  • Spanish Water Dogs

  • Mixed Breed

  • German Shepherds

  • Cavalier King Charles Spaniels

  • Jack Russels

  • Toy poodle


For the best possible life for your "Best Mate" then try to understand more about your dogs (Breed) psychological makeup. Find out more about what makes them tick? What makes them - "them". All dogs were created in some form to do a particular job. This is in origins of dogs as dogs were NOT always family pets. They were bred to do a job. This has changed with the introduction of Oodles and other mixed breeds.


  • Border Collie - Herding sheep

  • German Shepherd - Herding and guarding

  • Cocker Spaniel - Hunting and retrieving game birds

  • Bichon Frise - Companionship

  • King Charles Cavalier Spaniel - Companionship

  • Havanese - Companionship

  • Jack Russell Terrier - Fox hunting

  • Standard Poodle - Water retrieving

  • Italian Greyhound - Hunting small game and companionship

  • Australian Shepherd - Herding livestock


What is the right way for my puppy to say HELLO?

Every time, and particularly the first few times, that you are demonstrating to your puppy the correct way to greet others makes a big difference. Here's how to do it:

Setting the Scene

  • Premise: There are two or more puppies, all on-leash and on the ground, each with their own handler.

  • Stay Relaxed: Stay relaxed with your puppy and have a treat or two ready.

  • Comfort: Allow your puppy to come over to the other puppies when it shows it is comfortable doing so.

  • Respect Fear: If your puppy goes behind you or between your legs, do not force them to come out, as this is generally a sign of fear. Reassure them that they are safe and that you are with them.

  • Encourage Engagement: When your puppy shows signs of wanting to approach another puppy, gently encourage them and normalise the engagement as positive. This is critical to ensuring a positive experience.

  • Manage Excitement: When your puppy becomes overexcited and confident, they may start to pull on the leash and jump excessively. Managing these interactions can be challenging for both the puppy and the owner, but it is essential for a controlled and positive introduction.


How to Do It!


Stand Firm:

If your puppy pulls on the leash, do not move forward. Stand still and "hold your ground." This teaches your puppy that pulling will not get them what they want.


Use a Loose Leash:

Keep the leash loose to avoid adding tension, which can increase your puppy’s excitement or anxiety. A loose leash allows for more natural movement and interaction.


Balance - Between Holding your Ground and Relaxing the Leash


Stop and Hold: When the puppy is pulling, stop and hold your ground but please do NOT pull the dog or puppy back to you. This is a poor way to get your dog, puppy to learn. Call them back to you and smile and reward.


Relax the Leash: Once the puppies begin to engage with each other, start to relax the leash. If your puppy stops pulling, then relax the leash so there is absolutely no tension through the leash. Use a positive tone and pitch, saying, "It’s all good, buddy." or "Yes" good boy/girl


Maintain a Loose Leash: Ensure the leash is loose but not so relaxed that the puppy becomes overly excited and starts jumping on the other puppy. Gauge this balance through your hands and by observing the interactions, adjusting as needed.


Monitor and Adjust:

A face-to-face introduction with a relaxed leash helps the puppies smell, watch, and take in the presence of the other calmly. If the puppies become too excited, walk away while calling your puppy (Please don't pull them away - this is only setting up a barrier). This "change of place" helps the puppy relax and forget what was exciting them, reducing their anxiety.


Face-to-Face Introduction:

Allow the puppies to approach each other face-to-face. This position helps them read each other’s body language and respond appropriately.

The Role of Positive Reinforcement During On-Leash Introductions.


When introducing your puppy to other dogs, positive reinforcement plays a vital role in shaping their behaviour. Praising calm interactions and rewarding desired behaviour with treats or affection reinforces good habits. For example, if your puppy approaches another dog calmly without pulling on the leash, reward them immediately. This helps your puppy associate calm behaviour with positive outcomes, encouraging them to repeat it in future interactions.


Tip from Peter. Always carry some high-value treats when walking your puppy. These treats can serve as quick rewards during introductions, helping to keep your puppy focused on you rather than getting too distracted or overly excited by the new dog. At Bonnie’s Dog Obedience, we occasionally use treats as part of training, but we are NOT treat-only trainers. We integrate treats with verbal reinforcement—for example, using a high-pitched “Yes!” to mark good behaviour without sounding too hyperactive.


Additionally, using positive body language, such as offering a big smile, provides extra reinforcement. Dogs pick up on facial expressions, so combining a cheerful voice with a happy face helps your puppy understand they’ve done something right. This technique is particularly effective in reinforcing calm behaviour during new and potentially exciting situations.


Reading Body Language: Key to Safe Puppy Introductions

Understanding your puppy’s body language and that of other dogs is crucial for safe and positive introductions. Puppies often communicate through subtle signals that can help you gauge how comfortable they feel. Here are some key cues to watch for during on-leash introductions.


Key Signs Your Puppy is Comfortable

  • Relaxed Body: When your puppy appears loose and relaxed, this is a good sign they’re comfortable and willing to engage.

  • Wagging Tail: A gentle wag at mid-level height signals a friendly, calm approach. However, a stiff, high wag may indicate excitement or tension.

  • Sniffing: Dogs rely heavily on their sense of smell to gather information. Allow your puppy to sniff the other dog, but intervene if the sniffing becomes too intrusive or prolonged


Signs of Stress or Discomfort

  • Lip Licking/Yawning - These are common calming signals dogs use to diffuse tension. If your puppy is licking its lips or yawning repeatedly, it may be feeling unsure.

  • Avoidance - If your puppy looks away, turns its head, or tries to back away, don’t force interaction. Give them time and space to feel safe.

  • Raised Hackles - Raised fur along the back of your puppy’s neck and spine can indicate fear, arousal, or uncertainty. In such cases, calmly guide your puppy away from the situation.

By paying attention to these cues, you can better manage interactions and step in when necessary to ensure your puppy has a positive experience. Early socialisation sets the foundation for a well-adjusted adult dog, so these first introductions are critical.


Common Mistakes to Avoid During Puppy Introductions

Even with the best intentions, new puppy owners will sometimes make mistakes that lead to negative experiences during introductions. Here are some common mistakes to avoid however if interactions are necessarily forced - EG Visiting a family member or friend who has a dog.

  • Rushing the introduction - Puppies need time to feel comfortable in a new environment. Rushing them into interactions can cause stress and anxiety.

    Tip: Always give your puppy time to observe and assess the situation before engaging.

  • Forcing interaction - If a puppy shows signs of fear or hesitation, it’s important to respect their boundaries. Forcing interaction can lead to long-term anxiety issues.

    Tip: Encourage but don’t force. If your puppy hides or backs away, allow them time to approach at their own pace.

  • Pulling the leash back too tightly - A tight leash adds tension to the situation and can increase anxiety in both puppies.

    Tip: Keep the leash loose and maintain a calm, relaxed posture and please don't train when you are anxious or frustrated as this really can affect everything your trying to do.


Consistency is Key

Every new experience is an opportunity for learning. Whether introducing your puppy to new dogs, people, or environments, the principles of holding your ground and using a loose leash remain the same. Consistent application of these techniques will help your puppy develop into a well-mannered and confident dog.


In summary, proper on-leash introductions are crucial for your puppy’s social development. By holding your ground, using a loose leash, and employing positive communication, you can guide your puppy through these important early interactions. Remember, how we train our puppies in the first instances makes a significant difference for the rest of their lives. Happy training but always remember puppies should play off leash. Play dates are fun. Introduce by leash and then let them off the lead and allow them to play. This is also a vital part of your puppies interactions.


Suggested Reading List: - Click on the name and you will go the next article.


  1. "Essential Tips for Raising a Well-Behaved Puppy" 

    Discover actionable tips for building obedience and good behaviour through consistent training.

  2. "Why Touching Your Puppy is Vital: Building Trust Through Touch"  Explore how touch can be used alongside positive reinforcement to foster a secure and happy puppy.

  3. "Puppy Socialisation: The Key to a Well-Behaved Dog" 

    Learn how early socialisation with other dogs can set the foundation for a confident, well-adjusted adult dog.

  4. Understanding Dog Pack Structure

    Dive deeper into how dogs learn and why reinforcement is key to positive behaviour development.

  5. Val Bonney’s Books

    • "Who’s the Boss?" – A must-read for understanding pack structure and becoming a calm, confident leader for your dog.

    • "Are You Still the Boss?" – The perfect follow-up, offering advanced techniques for maintaining positive behaviour in adult dogs.

    • "Hey Baby—Who’s the Boss?" – This book is ideal for families with young children, especially new mums bringing home a baby to a household with a dog or introducing a dog to their baby. It covers essential tips on keeping everyone safe and fostering a positive environment for both the child and the dog.

  6. 👉 Shop now: Bonnie’s Dog Obedience Shop 




Australian master puppy trainer Peter Bonney
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