When bringing a new puppy into a household with an older dog, or an older dog coming into a puppies residence, understanding the differences in how they play is crucial. At Bonnies.com.au we are masters of puppy training - now in our 52 year of consistent training in Brisbane. Puppies and older dogs often approach play in entirely different ways, and it can take time and some guidance for them to learn to play together respectfully. With the right training techniques mixed with a great knowledge of your chosen dog's breed, you can foster a positive relationship between your best mates. Puppy training matters.
How Do Puppies and Older Dogs Play?
How Puppies Play!
Puppies approach play with boundless energy and little to no understanding of social norms. For them, play is a way to explore the world and learn about their environment, including the dynamics of interacting with other dogs. However, their enthusiastic behavior can sometimes be overwhelming for older dogs. Peter Bonney, master puppy trainer has written multiple articles on puppies and "How to properly introduce Puppies on Leash".
Puppies often play without rules: Jumping, nipping, and roughhousing are common behaviors as puppies experiment with social boundaries. Boundaries are taught from day 1 when they come home to you. Great breeders may also spend time getting the puppies ready for the world, crate training and use of Playpens are important, however this is only a beginning.
Jumping on other dogs: Puppies may not hesitate to jump on older dogs, even when the older dog is resting. It is how they learn. That's why puppies bite and nip because this is very normal for them when they are with their siblings.
Persistent and annoying behavior: Puppies may continue to pester an older dog, not recognising when their playmate needs a break.Simply put - they have NOT learned to read another dog’s body language. TIP - Separation while young and learning is really advisable.
How Older Dogs Play!
Adult dogs, on the other hand, generally have a well-established set of social rules. Their play often involves clear signals for starting and stopping, as well as maintaining boundaries.
Rules for greeting and inviting play. Older dogs typically use subtle body language to communicate, such as play bows or gentle nudges.
Awareness of social interactions. Adult dogs are more mindful of the dynamics in their interactions, making them more likely to follow “doggy etiquette.”
Older dogs who have been trained from an early age will also know how to read a puppies body language - this should not be taken for granted. NEVER assume that an older dog will be great with every puppy or any dog.
Helping Puppies and Older Dogs Play Together!
Facilitating harmonious play between puppies and older dogs requires patience, supervision, and the right strategies. Here’s how to encourage positive interactions:
Start Slowly. Begin with controlled interactions by keeping the older dog and the puppy on a leash to ensure they meet each other whilst under control. We always suggest they meet in a public or other space where the dog or puppy is not in their own house. This setup lets the older dog observe and adjust to the puppy’s presence without feeling overwhelmed and vice versa.
Limit Playtime: Keep initial play sessions short—30 seconds to a few minutes. Gradually increase the duration as both dogs become more comfortable.
Let the Older Dog Communicate: While it’s tempting to step in, allow the older dog to set boundaries with the puppy. A growl or a snap in the air is often a natural way for the older dog to teach the puppy manners. Yes this can be good on occasion but it is more important to understand that you are the BOSS and they must listen to you.
Watch for Signs of Aggression: Monitor both dogs closely for signs of discomfort or aggression, such as raised hackles, growling, or pinned ears. If the older dog becomes agitated, calmly separate them and let them cool off.
Praise Good Play: Reinforce positive behavior by praising or rewarding both dogs when they engage in gentle, respectful play.
Calm-Down Time: After a play session, provide a quiet space for the dogs to relax. Crates or separate areas allow each dog to decompress and recharge. We recommend that a puppy is in a Play Pen when NOT being supervised. Never forget that they are learning even when they are separated. Read the articles on Play Pens and Separation.
Be Patient: It can take weeks or even months for dogs to adjust to each other’s play styles and develop mutual respect. Stay consistent with your approach and celebrate small progress.
Why Play Matters!
Play isn’t just fun—it’s essential for a dog’s mental and physical well-being. For puppies, it’s an opportunity to learn important social skills, while older dogs benefit from the physical activity and mental stimulation. By ensuring that playtime is safe and respectful, you’re fostering a strong bond between your dogs and creating a harmonious home environment.
Further Support from Bonnie’s Dog Obedience and Puppy School
At Bonnie’s Dog Obedience and Puppy School, we understand the unique challenges of introducing a puppy to an older dog. Our award-winning training programs, tailored to all life stages, can guide you in creating a balanced dynamic between your pets.
Explore our hardcopy and eBook training resources for additional tips and techniques, or check out our related articles on topics like crate training, playpen usage, and the foot-on-the-lead technique. These proven methods can help set your dogs up for success, whether they’re playing together or learning to coexist peacefully.
Final Thoughts
By understanding how puppies and older dogs play, you can create a positive and enriching environment where both can thrive. Remember, every dog is unique, and finding the right balance may take time, but the rewards of a happy, harmonious household are well worth the effort. Teach your puppy and dog great Leash techniques. "Unleash the Secrets to Perfect Leash Training: From Puppies to Polished Pooches!"
Read more of our articles on this issue. "How do I introduce a New Puppy to my Dog in Residence"?
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